Personal Growth Success

Many times, when all of our doubts, fears, and insecurities find their way to the surface, we start thinking, “I wish I was somebody else.” More often than not, we think and believe that someone (or rather most people) are better than us, when in reality, the fact is, most people are just as scared as we are.

You spot a totally eye-catching girl sitting by herself at a party, casually sipping on a glass of Asti Spumanti. You think to yourself, “she looks so perfectly calm and confident.” But if you could read her mind, you might just be amazed that she’s thinking “are people talking about why I am seated here alone?… Why don’t guys find me attractive? …I don’t like my ankles, they look too skinny… I wish I was as intelligent as my best friend.”

We look at a young business entrepreneur and say “Wow… what else could he ask for?” And yet he stares at himself at the mirror and mutters to himself, “I hate my big eyes… I wonder why my friends won’t talk to me… I hope mom and dad would still work things out.”